The Boswells

The Boswells

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Four Months {Davis}

Davis is four months old! On one hand, I can't believe time has flown by, and on the other hand, I can't believe it's only been four months. There are times when time seems to stand still, the wait never ending, and then in a blink, a week has gone by. I am thankful for the strength that God gives us to journey through each day. He gives us just enough manna for today, allowing us to fully depend on him to get us through this.

Davis weighs 14 pounds 3 ounces and is wearing size six month clothes. He's in the 30th percentile for weight and the 3rd percentile for height. Proportionally, he's in the 87th percentile. That's a nice way to say he's short and chunky. He's gaining weight at the appropriate rate, even gaining too much despite the nutritionist reducing the calories to 27 per ounce. His nutritionist has since reduced the calorie count to 24 per ounce. The reduced calories also make it easier for him to tolerate his feeds.




As mentioned in a previous post, Davis received his two month vaccines. Shortly after receiving his shots, he had the typical fever and fussiness, but because of his cardiac output, it lasted a little bit longer and even required going back on oxygen for a few days. The doctors decided it would be best to increase Davis' cardiac output, so they increased the rate of his Berlin from 80 to 85. Additionally, he started throwing up more frequently. Not tolerating feeds is a common sign of heart failure. The body sends blood to all the major organs (brain, kidneys, liver), meaning the stomach does not have the blood flow it needs to do it's job. The nutritionist switched his formula from Enfamil Gentlease to Simulac Alimentum, which is easier on the stomach. They also put him on Prilosec and Zantac to help with reflux. All of these changes have helped; Davis has the typical normal baby spit ups with occasional vomiting.

Davis had another swallow study this month, and finally, he passed! I was quite nervous that he wouldn't even participate this time, because he had not shown any interest in a pacifier, but once he figured out something was coming out of that bottle, he figured it out real quick. It was such a relief to see him sucking from a bottle! Davis did not pass for the thinnest consistency, but he did pass for solids, and we can thicken his formula with rice, so he can take it from a bottle. I was disappointed he didn't pass for the thin consistency, but was so proud to see how far he has come. Passing any part of the swallow study meant he was one step closer to being a "normal" baby. This mama cried tears of joy!

Davis loves sitting in his recliner!
His favorite part is visiting with all his friends who stop by to chat!


Unfortunately, bottle feeding has been somewhat of a struggle. Davis did great in the beginning, taking nearly an ounce and sucking the bottle dry. Then he just quit. Flat out refused to take a bottle, a paci, anything. In fact, it was almost like he had developed an aversion to the spoon, nipple, or paci. He could have his whole hand in his mouth, but gag if you touch his lip with the paci. It was very frustrating. Solid foods have been about the same as bottle feeding; it's hit or miss. He's tried avocados, bananas, and sweet potatoes. His favorite so far has been bananas. We were able to get him to take about 8 mLs at one point. Right now, we are taking a step back and just focusing on getting him to take the pacifier again.

 It's already Christmas at Children's! 
I couldn't resist a snap in front of the tree!

This kiddo thinks it's funny to pull out his feeding tube!
It's not so funny when his nurse has to put it back in! :(

The good news is we are moving up on the transplant list! We actually had an offer last week, but we were unable to accept. Davis has only three percent antibodies, which is great, but this particular heart had a particular antigen that one of those antibodies would have attacked, making the risk of rejection higher. Our bodies don't develop antibodies until we are about a year old, which is why Davis can accept a heart of any blood type. So how did Davis develop these antibodies? The doctors think he probably received the antibodies from the blood products (blood transfusions, platelets) he received earlier on. The doctors knew this was a risk, but he needed the blood and platelets to save his life. They told us they would have accepted the heart and gone through with the transplant if Davis had been sick in an effort to save his life. As hard as it was to turn down this heart, we knew it was not the heart for Davis. We are thankful that God has given Davis strength and has kept him healthy and infection free, so that the doctors don't have to consider performing a risky procedure. When we pray, yes, we pray for a heart, but we also pray for the perfect heart for Davis. We know God is working on that, and we thank him for answering our prayers and keeping Davis safe. Sometimes God has to say "No", because He's working on a bigger "Yes!".

Amanda

Monday, November 2, 2015

Halloween

Hudson absolutely loved Halloween this year! Last year, he was still too young to trick or treat, and he wasn't quiet old enough to eat candy. Fast forward to this year, and he was ready! Our little ninja turtle had a blast, and even got to have twice the fun, because he got to trick or treat twice!

The weekend before Halloween, we carved our pumpkins. Tucker spent the morning with us to help, and then he headed back to Birmingham to stay with Davis. I say WE carved pumpkins, but it was really mostly Tucker. Hudson wasn't really interested. He didn't even want to touch the pumpkin guts and seeds. Tucker and I were calling it pumpkin guts. Hudson couldn't say it right, so it came out "pumpkin butts". We couldn't help but giggle each time he said it. Needless to say, Hudson and I played while Daddy did all the hard work. I did help him clean out the "pumpkin butts" though!

 Pumpkin carving fun and the finished product!
Tucker did an excellent job!

The city of Auburn did their trick or treating on Thursday night this year. Auburn High had a game on Friday night, and Auburn University played Ole Miss at home on Saturday. It broke my heart to miss Hudson's first real trick or treat experience, but I was holding down the fort with Davis. Daddy and Shug did a great job of getting him ready for his Halloween party at daycare and for trick or treating that night. He had so much fun that he didn't want it to end! Tucker sent me a video at the end of the night of him at the door crying, begging to trick or treat more. 

 Michelangelo

 Ready to get some candy!

Checking out his loot!

Children's Hospital held all of their festivities on Friday. Davis can't leave the unit without a team of people, and the machine that makes his Berlin function weighs about 250 pounds and has a battery life of about an hour. Due to this, he wasn't able to take part in the Halloween festivities, but that didn't stop us from celebrating! He dressed up like the Tin Man from The Wizard of Oz. It was the perfect costume for him, because like the Tin Man, Davis also needs a heart. 

 This little Tin Man needs a heart!

Saturday morning, Tucker and Hudson headed to Birmingham. Hudson was able to spend some time with his little brother, and we had an opportunity to spend time together as a family, something that rarely happens these days. 

 My heart swells seeing these cuties  together!

These are the moments that help us to persevere in this wait.

Later that night, Hudson got to trick or treat again with his cousin Prudence. It was cool and rainy, but they didn't care. And neither did I. I was so thankful to have the opportunity to spend time with my biggest making memories. We are looking forward to taking both of our boys trick or treating next year!

Amanda